podcasts

the podcast episodes we recommend to LGBTQ+ folks, parents, relatives, and allies.

Here you’ll find episodes of the Lift+Love podcast and other podcasts that we love, featuring the Lift+Love team and others in the LGBTQ+/Latter-day Saint space.

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podcasts featuring the lift+love team
podcasts we recommend

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#1 — Parenting in an LGBTQ+ Family (What to Do When Your Child Comes Out)

#2 — Embrace the Calling (Stop Feeling Fear about Your LGBTQ Child)

#3 — Healthy Sexuality and Relationships (with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife)

#4 — Being Gay and LDS (featuring Jenie’s son Nick)

#5 — Can I support LGBTQ Families? (with Nikki Harmon)

#6 — What’s the Deal with the Pride Flag?

#7 — Unconditional Love in an LGBTQ Family

#8 — Finding Support in a Group

#9 — Suicide and LGBTQ+ Youth (with Dr. Lisa Hansen)

#10 — Prioritizing Your Marriage When You Have an LGBTQ Child

#11 — David Doyle

#12 — Talking Through Tough Situations (with Julie Hanks)

#13 — Finding Belonging as an LGBTQ LDS Woman (with Liv Mendoza Haynes)

#15 — Can I Support My LGBTQ Child and Still Hold a Temple Recommend?

#16 — Creating Space for Our LDS Gay Married Families (with John Gustav-Wrathall)

#17 — Finding Support for Trans/Non-Binary Parenting

#18 — Conversation with Ben & Charlie from Questions from the Closet

#19 — Getting Spiritually Un-stuck

#20 -  Revelation through Journaling - Becky Edwards

#21 - Does staying in the church harm LGBTQ Saints? With Kate Toronto 

#22 — How Do I Stay?

#23 — Parenting in the Wilderness

#24 — LGBTQ-Path Survival Tips

#25 — How Being an Ally Changed Me (with Richard Ostler)

#26 — Starting an LGBTQ Scripture Study

#27 - #29 — Declaration of Divinity parts 1-3

#30 - Once We Made a TV Show with Lisa Valentine Clark & Hailey Jo Smith

#31 - #33 - Declaration of Divinity parts 4-5

#34 — Drama-Free Holiday Dinners

#35 — Is This Just a Phase?

#36 — Turns Out I Married a Gay Man

#37 - How to Proclaim Peace (with Patrick Mason & J. David Pulsipher)

#38 — Is My Child Safe at Church?

#39 — How to Take the Heat When You Stand Up (with Julie Spilsbury)

#41 — Surviving vs. Thriving – Letting Go of Worry

#42 — How to Keep Your Testimony (Parents of LGBTQ)

#48 — Gather Conference

#49 — When a Talk Hurts

#50 — How to Raise Healthy Gay Kids

#51 — Staying in Uncomfortable Moments (with Anita)

podcasts featuring lift+love team members

FAITH MATTERS:

Faith Matters - I’m Still Here - John Gustav-Wrathall and Allison Dayton (Restore)

Faith Matters Ep126 - Lift+Love - A Conversation with Allison Dayton

LISTEN, LEARN & LOVE:

Episode 254: David Smurthwaite, Married Father of 4, Former Bishop

EPISODE 595 Autumn McAlpin New Book 

EPISODE 628 New LGBTQ Conference - Allison & Ben

LISTEN LEARN and LOVE with Papa Ostler Podcast - Jenie Hunter

LISTEN LEARN and LOVE with Papa Ostler Podcast- Allison Dayton and Kirk Richards

Episode 664: Dr. Julia Bernards, BYU Dissertation on Transgender LDS Families (RESEARCH)

Episode 699: Kristine Coons (trans) & her wife Laura (cisgender), Active LDS


Episode 768: Sarah and Jeff Case, Gather Conference, Gather For Youth

Episode 783: David Smurthwaite, Ministering to LDS in Transgender/Non-Binary...

Episode 782: Dr Kristine Coons, Transgender LDS, Understands the Science

Episode 768: Sarah and Jeff Case, Gather Conference, Gather For Youth

Episode 727: Clare Dalton, Curriculum Curator for Gatherings

QUESTIONS FROM THE CLOSET:

How Do I Create Spaces of Belonging? Meghan Decker - QUESTIONS FROM THE CLOSET e20 S3

OTHER PODCAST EPISODES FEATURING LIFT+LOVE TEAM MEMBERS:

Breaking Down Patriarchy Episode 25- Untangling Homophobia from Faith with Allison Dayton

3 in 30 Podcast - How to Talk to your kids bout LGBTQ Topics with Allison

Beyond Coincidence Podcast - Lifting and Loving the LGBTQ community with Allison

Women Who Succeed: We HEAR Her: (Allison Dayton)

Mormonland (SLTrib) - How LGBTQ+ advocacy in the LDS Church has evolved (with Allison)

Dr Jennifer Finlayson Fife - Authenticity & Self-Acceptance - Sadi Rogers (about Lift+Love)

AT LAST SHE SAID IT Let's talk about Healthy Relationships with Meghan Decker - EPISODE 137

Tina Gosney Podcast - Being an LGBTQ Family at Church with Allison Dayton - #73

other podcasts we recommend


QUESTIONS FROM THE CLOSET / ALL OUT IN THE OPEN: 

    (BASICS)

  • The Stages of Coming Out S1 E33

  • Am I Gay? S1 E2

  • Should I Label Myself? S1 E1

  • Should I Come out? S1 E3

  • Does Accepting my Orientation change who I am?  S3E7

  • Why Come Out if I can Pass as Straight? S4 E!!

  • What Does it Mean To Be Bisexual? S1 E4

  • How Can I Find a Place Where I Belong? S1 E6

  • What is Bi-Erasure? S4 E7

  • Am I being deceived? with David Butler S2 E2

  •  What are the Pros and Cons of Coming Out? S5 E7

  • Finding Light in Troubling Times (Clare Dalton with Dr. Kristine Coons)

  • Seeing the Love of God In Others (with Tom Christofferson)

  • How the Gather Conference is Changing Lives (with Emilee Cutler & Spencer David Smith) S7 E30

   (MENTAL HEALTH RELATED)

  • How Do I Overcome Shame? S1 E5

  • How Do we Prevent LGBTQ suicide? S1 E15

  • Exploring Body Image and Eating Through an LGBTQ+ Lens (with Sydney Williams, LCSW) S7 E14

   (CHURCH/SPIRITUALITY)

  • How do I reconcile my Patriarchal Blessing? S1 e10

  • What do I do when going to church is hard? S1 e12

  • How Do I Fit into the Plan of Salvation? S1 E34

  • Should I Go on a Mission? S1 E25

  • How to be an LGBTQ ally and also support church teachingsS1 E32

  • How Do I Navigate the Family Proclamation? S1 E21

  • Is There a Place For Me In The Church?  

  • Why Do You Stay in the Church? E4 S5

  • What If I don’t belong in either community? S3 E2

  • How can I Find Joy in the Temple as an LGBTQ Individual? S4 E23

  • Do you think the Church will change? S5 E8

  • How Do I Work Through Past Statements From Church Leaders? S6 E20

  • How Can I Be Supportive as a Leader? S6 E15

  • What if a Loved One Insists I Leave the Church S6 E11

  • How Do I Explain the Church's Stance on Homosexuality? S6 E4 

  • Ben Reflects on Being Denied a Temple Recommend (with Ben & Charlie) S7 E 31

  • God's Promise to His LGBTQ+ Children (with Charlie & Ben) S7 E35

  • Exploring the Doctrine of Exaltation When You Don’t See Yourself in It S7 E56

   (DATING/MARRIAGE)

  • Can I Date?  S1 E42

  • What do I do when I fall in love? S3 E1

  • Why is Gen Z so Gay? S4 E10

  • What If Staying Single Doesn't Feel Right Anymore? S6 E7

   (FAMILY)

  • How Does Coming Out Affect my Parents? E28 S4

   (ALLYSHIP)

  • How Come All the Allies are Middle Aged Moms? S6 E10

  • We Need Allies More than Ever (with Ben & Charlie) S7 E26

  • Building Zion as LGBTQ+ Saints and Allies (Clare Dalton with Patrick Mason) S7 E34

  • Advocacy is for Everyone (Liz Macdonald and Michael Soto with Landon Phillips) S7 E36

  • What LGBTQ+ Latter-Day Saints Wish Others Understood S7 E39

LISTEN, LEARN AND LOVE: 

  • Episode 681 (story about a ward working together to welcome a gay couple)

  • Episode 780: Tegan Zelano Blanchard (or “Z”), Recent RM, Bisexual member...

THERAPY THURSDAY WITH TJ THOMAS:

  • Healthy Boundaries - Therapy Thursday with TJ Thomas E39

  • How to Find a Therapist - Therapy Thursday with TJ Thomas E49

  • Transgender Visibility -  Therapy Thursday with TJ Thomas E59

  • What NOT to do with someone comes out -  Therapy Thursday with TJ Thomas E70

  • Affirmation Keynote (for LGBTQ)  Therapy Thursday with TJ Thomas

  • Fighting Fair (conflict) -  Therapy Thursday with TJ Thomas E92

  • Holiday Boundaries -  Therapy Thursday with TJ Thomas E93

  • Ally vs. Accomplice -  Therapy Thursday with TJ Thomas E109

  • Why Pride Matters -  Therapy Thursday with TJ Thomas E117

  • Being a Better Ally -  Therapy Thursday with TJ Thomas E123

  • Myths about Gender-affirming Care - Therapy Thursday with TJ Thomas E143

  • Common Queer Myths -  Therapy Thursday with TJ Thomas E162

 FAITH MATTERS:

  • Faith Matters- Elusive Unity at BYU - Conversation with Tom Christofferson/Patrick Mason  - E84

  • Faith Matters - Loving Without an Agenda — A Conversation with Ben Schilaty and Charlie Bird