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Crayon Analogy (understanding modern LGBTQ terms you're not used to) - Allison Dayton
Lift+Love founder Allison Dayton uses crayon analogy to help explain why it's sometimes difficult for older generations to understand LGBTQ identities and terms. To find resources for LGBTQ+ Latter-day Saints and their parents, relatives, leaders, friends, and allies, please visit www.liftandlove.org for online support groups, LGBTQ terms, F.A.Q., family stories, podcast episodes, and more!
Lift+Love founder Allison Dayton uses crayon analogy to help explain why it's sometimes difficult for older generations to understand LGBTQ identities and terms. Watch the short video here
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Choosing Between Faith and Family? - Parenting in the Wilderness
Anita from @parenting_in_the_wilderness explains why you don’t have to choose between faith and family.
In this short video, Anita from @parenting_in_the_wilderness explains why you don’t have to choose between living your faith and loving your family.
Can Latter-day Saints Support Gay Marriage?
In this video, Lift+Love Founder Allison Dayton explains why Latter-day Saints Support Gay Marriage. Her explanation includes quotes and video clips from Elder D. Todd Christofferson.
In this video, Lift+Love Founder Allison Dayton explains why Latter-day Saints Support Gay Marriage. Her explanation includes quotes and video clips from Elder D. Todd Christofferson. WATCH HERE
If you’re interested in hearing more from Latter-day Saint Apostles who have spoken about supporting gay marriage, we also suggest this post by David Doyle, who has discussed the topic of attending/support gay weddings with Elder Dale G. Renlund.
Why Does Pride Get an Entire Month? - Video by Allison Dayton
In this video, Lift+Love Founder Allison Dayton answers a common question - Why does Pride Month lasts an entire month (when many other celebrations/holidays like Mother’s Day only last one day)?
Lift+Love Founder Allison Dayton answers a common question - Why does Pride Month lasts an entire month (when many other celebrations/holidays like Mother’s Day only last one day)? WATCH HERE
Dale G Renlund: Suicide (Prevention) and Same-Sex Attraction (Video)
Dale G Renlund: Suicide and Same-Sex Attraction. In this video, Elder Renlund explains that LGBTQ people are often isolated, but we should treat them the way that the Savior would - with more love, care, and inclusion - not exclusion.
Dale G Renlund: Suicide and Same-Sex Attraction. In this video, Elder Renlund explains that LGBTQ people are often isolated, but we should treat them the way that the Savior would - with more love and inclusion, not hatred or exclusion.
Ronald A. Rasband - Supporting Transgender Individuals (video)
Elder Ronald A. Rasband taught that (people who experience gender dysphoria)… “need to be encircled in the arms of their Savior and know they are loved. So often the Lord calls on us; He expects us to be His welcoming, loving arms. We need to encourage their friends to do the same” Ronald A. Rasband, “Jesus Christ Is the Answer” (evening with a General Authority, Feb. 8, 2019)
Elder Ronald A. Rasband taught that (people who experience gender dysphoria)… “need to be encircled in the arms of their Savior and know they are loved. So often the Lord calls on us; He expects us to be His welcoming, loving arms. We need to encourage their friends to do the same” (“Jesus Christ Is the Answer” [evening with a General Authority, Feb. 8, 2019]).
Ronald A. Rasband, “Jesus Christ Is the Answer” (evening with a General Authority, Feb. 8, 2019)
This is the LGBTQ Holiday Message that Everyone Needs to See - VIDEOS WE RECOMMEND
This short video (produced by Encircle) has a Christmas theme, but the message is applicable all year. This video depicts a parent’s journey to accepting and supporting their trans youth. Features Miles McKenna.
This short video (produced by Encircle) has a Christmas theme, but the message is applicable all year. This video depicts a parent’s journey to accepting and supporting their trans youth. Features Miles McKenna.
"What A Therapist Wished Every Parent Knew" - TJ Thomas
As a therapist working with many LGBTQ youth, TJ Thomas provides insights and advice to parents on how to better connect with their children in his presentation “What a Therapist Wished Every Parent Knew” which was given during the 2023 Gather Conference breakout session for parents.
As a therapist working with many LGBTQ youth, TJ Thomas provides insights and advice to parents on how to better connect with their children in his presentation “What a Therapist Wished Every Parent Knew” which was given during the 2023 Gather Conference breakout session for parents.
Watch the video of “TJ Thomas: What a Therapist Wished Every Parent Knew” here
Dr. Jordon Sharp: Choosing Love - One Dad's Unexpected Journey of Navigating the LDS/LGBTQ Space
This challenging yet heartwarming session delves into the profound journey that many fathers embark upon when learning about their LGBTQ children. Dr. Sharp's experience as a father and bishop of LGBTQ youth sheds light on the challenges faced by parents, leaders, and children while offering insights, relatability, solace, and support.
This challenging yet heartwarming video delves into the profound journey that many fathers embark upon when learning about their LGBTQ children. Dr. Sharp's experience as a father and bishop of LGBTQ youth sheds light on the challenges faced by parents, leaders, and children while offering insights, relatability, solace, and support. Presented at Gather Conference 2023.
The Mackintosh Story (Mormon Messages)
“I’m a Latter-day Saint and I have a gay son. I love him with all my heart, might, and soul. And I love my religion with all my heart, might, and soul. It’s the core of who I am. I will never, never, ever turn my back on my son, and I will never, never, ever leave my religious faith. Period. I’ve been asked how and why. It’s because God has made it clear to me that I am to love my son…unconditionally”
“I’m a Latter-day Saint and I have a gay son. I love him with all my heart, might, and soul. And I love my religion with all my heart, might, and soul. It’s the core of who I am. I will never, never, ever turn my back on my son, and I will never, never, ever leave my religious faith. Period. I’ve been asked how and why. It’s because God has made it clear to me that I am to love my son…unconditionally”
"Michael McLean: Faith Crisis, What Do We Do When We Feel Nothing?"
“Dad, I can’t do it anymore. I’m gay.” Michael Mclean’s son had come out to him. “Dad, I’ve tried to do everything you said. I went on my mission. I was an Eagle Scout. And I don’t know how to get through it.” Michael felt his son’s pain and wanted to support him. So, he turned to God in prayer. Michael had received answers before. He knew they would come, but he felt nothing. It was the first time in his life the heavens felt shut. His prayers couldn’t get past the ceiling. Michael begged God to talk to him. It was challenging the first weeks and months, but as two years passed, Michael questioned, “What if I got it wrong? Is there really a God who hears my prayers?”…
Michael McLean: Faith Crisis, What Do We Do When We Feel Nothing? video, click here to watch
“Dad, I can’t do it anymore. I’m gay.” Michael Mclean’s son had come out to him. “Dad, I’ve tried to do everything you said. I went on my mission. I was an Eagle Scout. And I don’t know how to get through it.” Michael felt his son’s pain and wanted to support him. So, he turned to God in prayer. Michael had received answers before. He knew they would come, but he felt nothing. It was the first time in his life the heavens felt shut. His prayers couldn’t get past the ceiling. Michael begged God to talk to him. It was challenging the first weeks and months, but as two years passed, Michael questioned, “What if I got it wrong? Is there really a God who hears my prayers?” He asked himself, “Can I keep the promises I’ve made when my heart feels nothing?” Michael got on his knees and prayed, as he had countless times before. While Michael prayed, he said, “I don’t know if You’re hearing this, but I’m going to quit whining and moaning. I’m going to trust You. I’m going to trust that, at some point, You’ll communicate with me, and I won’t feel so lost.” Michael didn’t give up hope, but he stopped trying to make himself feel something. Michael writes songs for a living. After nine years in his faith crisis, he had an extraordinary experience. One day he went into his study. It was as if songs were being downloaded to his mind. He wrote for 10 days and completed 12 songs. Michael’s answers came in those songs. He felt that God had answered him in a way only he could understand. They came directly from God’s heart to his. Michael was overwhelmed by His grace.
Michael McLean: Faith Crisis, What Do We Do When We Feel Nothing? video, click here to watch
