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Crayon Analogy (understanding modern LGBTQ terms you're not used to) - Allison Dayton
Lift+Love founder Allison Dayton uses crayon analogy to help explain why it's sometimes difficult for older generations to understand LGBTQ identities and terms. To find resources for LGBTQ+ Latter-day Saints and their parents, relatives, leaders, friends, and allies, please visit www.liftandlove.org for online support groups, LGBTQ terms, F.A.Q., family stories, podcast episodes, and more!
Choosing Between Faith and Family? - Parenting in the Wilderness
Anita from @parenting_in_the_wilderness explains why you don’t have to choose between faith and family.
Can Latter-day Saints Support Gay Marriage?
In this video, Lift+Love Founder Allison Dayton explains why Latter-day Saints Support Gay Marriage. Her explanation includes quotes and video clips from Elder D. Todd Christofferson.
Why Does Pride Get an Entire Month? - Video by Allison Dayton
In this video, Lift+Love Founder Allison Dayton answers a common question - Why does Pride Month lasts an entire month (when many other celebrations/holidays like Mother’s Day only last one day)?
Dale G Renlund: Suicide (Prevention) and Same-Sex Attraction (Video)
Dale G Renlund: Suicide and Same-Sex Attraction. In this video, Elder Renlund explains that LGBTQ people are often isolated, but we should treat them the way that the Savior would - with more love, care, and inclusion - not exclusion.
Ronald A. Rasband - Supporting Transgender Individuals (video)
Elder Ronald A. Rasband taught that (people who experience gender dysphoria)… “need to be encircled in the arms of their Savior and know they are loved. So often the Lord calls on us; He expects us to be His welcoming, loving arms. We need to encourage their friends to do the same” Ronald A. Rasband, “Jesus Christ Is the Answer” (evening with a General Authority, Feb. 8, 2019)
This is the LGBTQ Holiday Message that Everyone Needs to See - VIDEOS WE RECOMMEND
This short video (produced by Encircle) has a Christmas theme, but the message is applicable all year. This video depicts a parent’s journey to accepting and supporting their trans youth. Features Miles McKenna.
"What A Therapist Wished Every Parent Knew" - TJ Thomas
As a therapist working with many LGBTQ youth, TJ Thomas provides insights and advice to parents on how to better connect with their children in his presentation “What a Therapist Wished Every Parent Knew” which was given during the 2023 Gather Conference breakout session for parents.
Dr. Jordon Sharp: Choosing Love - One Dad's Unexpected Journey of Navigating the LDS/LGBTQ Space
This challenging yet heartwarming session delves into the profound journey that many fathers embark upon when learning about their LGBTQ children. Dr. Sharp's experience as a father and bishop of LGBTQ youth sheds light on the challenges faced by parents, leaders, and children while offering insights, relatability, solace, and support.
The Mackintosh Story (Mormon Messages)
“I’m a Latter-day Saint and I have a gay son. I love him with all my heart, might, and soul. And I love my religion with all my heart, might, and soul. It’s the core of who I am. I will never, never, ever turn my back on my son, and I will never, never, ever leave my religious faith. Period. I’ve been asked how and why. It’s because God has made it clear to me that I am to love my son…unconditionally”
"Michael McLean: Faith Crisis, What Do We Do When We Feel Nothing?"
“Dad, I can’t do it anymore. I’m gay.” Michael Mclean’s son had come out to him. “Dad, I’ve tried to do everything you said. I went on my mission. I was an Eagle Scout. And I don’t know how to get through it.” Michael felt his son’s pain and wanted to support him. So, he turned to God in prayer. Michael had received answers before. He knew they would come, but he felt nothing. It was the first time in his life the heavens felt shut. His prayers couldn’t get past the ceiling. Michael begged God to talk to him. It was challenging the first weeks and months, but as two years passed, Michael questioned, “What if I got it wrong? Is there really a God who hears my prayers?”…
